Bonjour, loves! As many of you know, I’ve been diving headfirst into my elegant French woman era, and let me tell you—it’s been a transformative journey! French women have this effortless je ne sais quoi that feels so timeless, refined, and expensive—without needing to shout it from the rooftops. I’ve picked up a few lessons along the way and wanted to share ten things elegant women (especially the French) never do to maintain their aura of quiet luxury and sophistication.

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1. Skip Fillers—Try Hyaluronic Acid Instead

Elegant women embrace subtle enhancements over dramatic changes. Instead of fillers, try a hydrating lip plumper with hyaluronic acid like Ourself Lip Filler or Inner Tube by Makeup Beauty. These products naturally smooth and plump the lips without overdoing it. Your lips will look youthful and hydrated—like you just stepped off the streets of Paris.

2. Say No to Botox—Try Argireline or Castor Oil Instead

Elegant women embrace natural solutions to keep their skin smooth and radiant. Instead of Botox, look for products with Argireline, often referred to as “Botox in a bottle,” which helps reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. Alternatively, castor oil is a gentle, natural moisturizer that can help soften the skin and promote a glowing complexion.

As always, read the label carefully and ensure the product suits your skin type and needs. The key is finding gentle, effective solutions that enhance your natural beauty without compromising your skin’s health.

3. No Eyelash Extensions—Invest in a Lash Serum

Ditch the heavy eyelash extensions and opt for a natural enhancement with Sweed Beauty’s Eyelash Growth Serum. This formula nourishes and strengthens your lashes, promoting length and fullness over time. Pair it with a lightweight mascara for a soft, fluttery look that’s both effortless and elegant.

Your lashes will look naturally lush—no appointments or glue required.

4. No Brow Lamination—Keep It Groomed and Soft

Ditch the overly laminated brows and try a tinted brow gel, like Glossier Boy Brow or Well Peoples Brow Gel (my fav). These products add fullness and shape while keeping your brows looking natural and polished. Brush them upwards for a subtly defined look. And for extra support for super curly brows add a bit of hairspray to a spoolie and brush away!

5. No Heavy Contour—Use Soft Dimension Techniques

Elegant women steer clear of harsh contouring, favoring soft, natural dimension instead. A perfect cruelty-free option is Lily Lolo Sculpt & Glow Contour Duo, which features a silky bronzer and a luminous highlighter for a naturally defined look. For a touch of color, pair it with Westman Atelier Baby Cheeks Blush Stick for a fresh, radiant flush.

The key is to enhance what’s already there—your natural beauty, but with an elegant twist.

6. No Scrunchies—Opt for a Ribbon or Silk Hair Tie

Scrunchies are out, but ribbons are in! A sleek black ribbon tied around a low ponytail or bun is effortlessly feminine. For a modern twist, try a silk scrunchie with a built-in ribbon (if you can hide it), like those from The Hair Edit. Chic, gentle on the hair, and oh-so-French.

7. No Extreme Nail Shapes—Choose Timeless Elegance

Keep nails short and naturally shaped—think almond or natural. Stick to classic colors like nude, soft pink, light peaches or the color of 2025 soft mocha. Emilie In Paris Nail Artist Duo Set and Just The Nip Nail Artist Polish are timeless choices. This is the brand I personally use along with Suzanne Somers non-toxic, vegan, cruelty free nail polishes. Avoid glitter or bold patterns, which can feel fussy rather than refined.

8. No Loud Logos—Invest in Timeless Pieces

Elegant women avoid loud branding and opt for subtle luxury without screaming it from the roof tops. They feel this actually makes you look cheap when you sport luxury brand logos for jewelry, bags and fashion pieces. Instead of monogrammed bags like Louis Vouttion monogrammed bags, choose a classic tote, or refined handbag in a neutral color. Timeless jewelry, like a pair of gold hoops or a delicate pearl necklace, adds sophistication without screaming for attention.

9. No Stanley Cups—Elevate Your Hydration Game

Ok this one I already knew and never owned. It felt so overwhelming that I personally never liked the Stanley cup trend. Oversized water bottles don’t exactly scream elegance. Instead, carry a sleek, minimalist bottle like S’well (one I personally use and carry for years, they last forever! and are so chic! for hydration on the go. At home, savor your drinks in a beautiful glass carafe or teacup. Even water tastes better when it’s presented with a touch of style.

10. No Overly Trendy Clothing—Choose Classics with a Twist

Elegant women avoid fleeting trends and focus on timeless staples. Invest in pieces like a tailored trench coat, a perfectly cut white blouse, or classic black ballet flats. Add a touch of personality with a silk scarf, like those from Sézane, or a statement accessory that feels uniquely you.

The Takeaway: Elegance Is in the Details

French elegance isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing less, but doing it better. It’s the art of looking expensive while whispering it, not shouting. By focusing on quality over quantity and embracing a timeless aesthetic, you can effortlessly channel your own je ne sais quoi. Whether it’s a glowing complexion or a wardrobe of perfectly curated staples, remember: true elegance is subtle, refined, and never overdone.

Which of these tips are inspiring your routine? Let me know in the comments below—I’d love to hear your thoughts!