How to Stop Fearing the Red Lip: Why Red Changes Everything!

Ah, the red lip! It’s feared, misunderstood, and oh-so-chic. Yes, my beauty-loving friends, it’s all wrapped in one fearful little package. There’s something magical about a classic red lip. It’s one of my all-time favorites! But because this little classic is feared so much, sometimes have to avoid wearing it on client workdays because it scares my clients. Seriously! The moment they see me embracing my signature red lip, they’re convinced I’m going to slap one on them as they sit in my makeup chair. Why does red get such a bad rap, anyway?

Let’s unpack this fear and misunderstanding from my pro makeup artist point of view first and then I will share my favs and how to wear them, simply.

Red Lips: Why So Misunderstood?

When I sit down with a client for a consultation during their makeup application, the one thing I hear time and time again is: “Just don’t give me a red lip.” Or, “I can’t wear red.” My dear beauty bestie, I’m here to change your mind! But first, let’s dig into why you might feel this way.

The truth is, your hesitation probably comes from unfamiliarity. Your brain hasn’t processed what a bold lip looks like on you because you’ve never really tried it OR you haven’t let your brain process the newsness of the iconic bright lip. You might be worried it’s too flashy, too much, or just not you. But think about the last time you tried something new with your look—whether it was changing your hair part or a new hair style. Didn’t it feel strange at first? And then, over time, you got used to it. The same goes for a bold lip! It’s all about practice and patience.

Why the Bold Lip is a Game-Changer

Now, let’s talk about why a red lip is so beneficial ( i know I’ll have to convince you):

• It’s Timeless: A red lip never goes out of style. It’s as classic as Audrey Hepburn in Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Or a classic winged liner, if thats your thing.
• Instant Elegance: Running late? No problem. A bold lip can make you look polished in five seconds flat.
• Wardrobe Pop: It’s like your signature necklace but for your face. A red lip can elevate even the simplest outfit.

My Top Tips for Embracing a Bold Red Lip

Here’s how to ease into the world of red lipstick without feeling overwhelmed:

1. Start Bold but Subtle: Instead of diving into a bright, fire-engine red, pick a softer red tone. Something lighter or more muted can help you ease into the look.
2. Experiment with Lip Liners: I always tell my clients during lessons to grab a handful of inexpensive lip liners in colors they’ve never considered. It’s a low-commitment way to try new shades. Apply them, play around, and wear them around the house. Let your brain adjust!
3. Wear It at Home: Spend a day at home with your bold lip on. By the end of the day, you’ll have a better sense of whether it feels right for you. If it doesn’t? No biggie! If it does? Get ready to strut your stuff.
4. Warm or Cool?: If you want a specific recommendation, here are two of my favorite red lip colors from MOB Beauty:

• Warm Undertones? Try M136

• Cool Undertones? Go for M67.

Or, if you’re like me and don’t care about the rules, get them both! A girl can never have too many options.

How to Wear a Red Lip the French Way

My favorite way to wear a red lip? The French way. Think understated eyes, glowy radiant skin, and a pop of red that makes your whole aura shine bright. It’s effortlessly chic and oh-so-romantic. Here’s how to nail it:

• Skin First: Focus on radiant, well-moisturized skin. A lightweight foundation or tinted moisturizer with a natural glow is perfect. Add a beautifully, natural highlight that looks like your skin is glowing naturally.
• Understated Eyes: Keep it simple with a touch of mascara and maybe a soft wash of neutral shadow.
• The Lip: Choose your favorite red lipstick and let it take center stage. Matte, no shine, no gloss. Apply it with precision, and don’t forget to blot and reapply for longevity.

And if you need help wrapping this entire look up in a beautiful little palette package to keep things easy, grab my favorite French in 5 palette HERE.

This look is perfect for date nights, special occasions, or just a day when you want to feel effortlessly fabulous. Trust me, nothing says “I’ve got it together” like this classic combo.

So this Valentine’s Day, or really any day, why not give a bold lip a shot? It’s a small change that can have a big impact—and who knows, you might just fall in love with it.

Trust me, beauty bestie, you’re more daring and fabulous than you think. Now, go grab that red lipstick and own it!

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